Helloooo! I am back with another life update. I seem to do this every two years, even though I say I will try to do more of them, I just don’t know if I have enough interesting things happening in my life to talk about. But there have been a few pretty excited recent happenings that I would like to share.
1. We’re getting married!
After over five years together, my boyfriend proposed over Christmas! We always knew we were going to stay together forever so the engagement was more like a formality – nothing felt different afterwards. Although, I did have a few minor moments of “oh shit it’s actually happening.” If you know me in real life, you’ll know that I am an avid planner of literally everything. I LOVE planning. Of course I jumped on the wedding planning train literally right away, and after one month of being engaged, I already have our venue (ceremony and reception in one place), caterer (included with the venue), photographer, officiant, makeup artist, wedding ring, and more…
One of my friends who I knew from high school is a part-time wedding coordinator, and she basically “banned” me from planning for the month of February because she said I am doing it too fast. We joke that she’s my “unofficial” wedding coordinator because I’m not allowed to book her yet. The timing actually works out really well because…
2. We’re buying a house!
I know, the crazy life updates just keep on coming. We’ve actually been looking to buy a house together for the last year or so. The Vancouver real estate market is insane, like worse than San Francisco or New York because the median family income here is a lot lower, so the income-housing prices ratio is completely out of wack. Because of this, we’ve been pretty actively looking and going to open houses for the last year. We finally found something that fit our budget and our future needs, and we’re currently working on closing the sale.
I actually find house-buying a lot less stressful than condo-buying. With condo-buying, you’re assessing the unit itself and also the building / complex that the unit is in to make sure there are no major issues. Because condo owners own a percentage of the shared common property (building walls, lobby, driveway, etc.), it’s really important that you check if the building is being maintained properly. With the house, you just make sure the house itself is in good shape, and then you’re pretty much good to go. Thankfully this time I also have my fiance to help with a lot of the action items, whereas last time I did it by myself, so it’s another plus.
We’ll likely have to do some renovations on the house before we can move in. While it’s not super old, the previous owners didn’t do any updates, so we’ll have to update it for things like new flooring and paint.
3. We’re changing up our diet
One big thing that I wanted to change for myself was eating healthier, especially with the upcoming wedding. We decided to try out the keto diet, and since January 2, we’ve been pretty good about not eating any carbs. This has been a big transition for me because carbs used to make up at least half of my diet (I LOVE noodles, basically any long, carby thing). It was easy the first week, and then hard for the next two weeks, and then back to being easy after week four. Being on this diet doesn’t just mean that I have to watch that I’m not eating carbs, but also being cautious about what else I’m putting in my body. While my fiance has been eating a lot of bacon and eggs, I’ve been drinking a lot of bone broth, and eating vegetables and shirataki noodles to help with the noodle cravings.
The other thing that I have added to my diet is collagen powder. Skincare has always been a big focus in my life, and of course for my wedding I want to have the best skin possible. I was recently sent a tub of the SPROOS Grass-Fed Collagen (C$34.99), which I’ve been adding in my coffee. Each tub comes with 300g (30 servings of 10g each) so I’ve been using it maybe twice a week to extend the life of each tub (I think for optimal benefits you’re supposed to have it every day). So far I haven’t noticed that significant improvement in my skin, but over time I’m confident that collagen will help the way my skin looks and feels. I like that it’s flavourless and doesn’t taint the flavour of my coffee, it also dissolves completely and is not clumpy at all. SPROOS also offers collagen from a marine source (C$44.99), I’ve tried a few 10g sachets of this as well, and I honestly can’t tell the difference between the two in terms of flavour profile (both flavourless), texture, and benefit.
4. I finally know my real bra size
Growing up, my mom used to only wear Japanese bras, so I grew up with the notion that Japanese bras were the best. Unfortunately for me, and unbeknownst to my mom, my chest ended up growing to a size that aren’t even made by most Japanese bra companies. Thankfully, I was invited to a bra sizing event by Anita, and they gave me my correct size. Also thankfully, they sent me one of their Rosa Faia bras to try, in the style Selma, and honestly I have never ever felt more comfortable in a bra in my entire life. When I was in Japan a few years ago, they measured me at size 36DD (for most styles, DD is the biggest size available in Japan), but it was always uncomfortable and didn’t fit well. Anita measured me at size 36F, which is a whole two sizes bigger than the Japanese bra measurement I had earlier – no wonder I was always uncomfortable in a bra!!
Ever since I got my Rosa Faia bra, I’ve literally been wearing it pretty much every day (gross, I know, I desperately need more). They aren’t cheap, at around $100 a pop, but that’s very comparable to the prices I was paying for the Japanese bras. As a person with my cup size, it’s really hard to find bras in conventional stores like La Senza or Victoria’s Secret because we need so much more support in the band. The Rosa Faia bras not only provide incredible support, but also look sexy – in my case, the bra I was sent is black and lacy, but can still be worn underneath t-shirts with no nip slip. I’ve been super impressed with the Anita Rosa Faia styles, that I will be purchasing many more in the coming months to replace my ill-fitted Japanese bras. I’m also looking into the brand for wedding lingerie.
I received samples of the SPROOS collagen and Anita Rosa Faia bra from the respective companies for review consideration; all opinions are my own.